Sunday, October 25, 2009

Not about Beach Resorts...

A Personal Bond with God

People often commit mistakes by loving the wrong person or by letting go of the right one. But one should not lose hope because the one meant for them will always find it’s way to their hearts. Unless, one would still refuse to accept God’s choice for them for various personal reasons. For God only recommends, but man ultimately decides. Because freewill is one of God’s gifts to us.

Choosing a partner in accordance with the world’s standard will only work at the beginning but will expire after only a few moments. That, we can observe at the rising divorce rate. The devil is the Great Deceiver, so naturally he deceives the whole world by convincing us that we should love conditionally and only to those who can give us the luxuries and securities in life.

Divorce rate is high and rising because the world is greatly deceived and later on they found out that no can really give a secured or materially comfortable life. If they read the Holy Bible they would have avoided such mistakes because they will find out that only God can give us a secured life.

The opposite of love is hate. And hate is satan. But let us be careful because he is the Great Deceiver. He will not only dwell on the opposites but will twist or bend the truth a little. He will not sleep in devising new ways to lead us astray. In fact, he is creating a new kind of love. And in order to distinguish this love, let us call this as Conditional or Devious Love. It is a love created by satan himself, that focuses on one’s love for oneself. A self-centered love. Let us remember that he was the first being to feel such love. Love for oneself will lead you to think of grandiose dreams and goals for oneself. It is never satisfied. That’s why it led him to think of trying to be equal if not more than God. And look where it got him.

While God’s Love is unconditional and unselfish. This is the true kind of Love. God is synonymous with True Love, that we can be able to conclude that God is Love. Yes, God is Love and He wants us to experience this kind of Love in order for us to know and have a much deeper understanding and relationship with Him.

He gave us an example on how Love should be experienced, by giving His only begotten Son to save mankind, but still humanity chose to love the world more than Him. That is why they weren’t able to recognize the most special gift God has offered even if Jesus was standing physically before their eyes. If you are also blinded by satan then sad to say you wouldn’t also recognize the one God chose for you. He or she will just pass right infront of you and you wouldn’t even blink your eyes because you’re sights are somewhere else far away. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not implying that we should also sacrifice our sons, daughters or those close to us in order to experience Love.

What I’m saying is that, we experience Love by loving someone who is completely UNRELATED to you and doing everything for that person without regard for one’s self. I emphasized the word "unrelated" because it is fairly easy to Love someone who is related to you like your parents,brothers,sisters,sons and daughters to name a few. Some would even call it paternal or maternal instinct etc…It’s also common with animals, to die for one’s kin. In short, it’s fairly natural to do so.

But to Love Unconditionaly and Unselfishly, someone who is not related to you by blood will make you experience how God Loves us and in so doing makes you in One with Him. For there is now a special or personal bond between you and God.

Bonds are formed when persons undergo the same feeling and experience. A prime example of which is the bond form between soldiers after experiencing the horrors of war. And if you observe them much closely, they tend to give much importance to their comrades in arm than to their blood relations or husbands and wives, because of that bond or mutual experience they have shared. Now how much more if you have a personal bond with God, Himself.

Single blessedness is not a bad thing but if you want to have a much closer and deeper relation with God then you must learn to Love Unconditionaly and unselfishly someone who is not related to you by blood. And by experiencing Love you are experiencing God because God is Love.

So before you go into a relationship with your special someone think of all the negative scenarios you can imagine while being with him/her. If you can still accept him/her after that then please do continue.

Going to school is one way of conditioning one’s self for the rigors of life. So we must also condition ourselves before going into relationships. Let us not forget that our goal is not only to have a successful lovelife but also to have a personal bond with God. But I must warn you that both of you should have the same goal, or else satan who hates Love will surely find a crack ( no matter how small ) in your relationship and will find means to make it bigger and eventually break it.

So make it a point to talk about your goals in life. There are only two choices. World-centered or God-centered. No ifs and buts. I hope the both of you chose the God-centered life. By so doing, God will personally bless and protect your relationship.

If you are at the crossroads of your lovelife or have suffered because you Loved Unconditionaly and Unselfishly, and you want some kindred to comfort you or share to you why people nowadays react differently if not harshly to Unconditional Love or Unselfish Love, then please feel free to leave a message…

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